The 12th Step Podcast

Smartphones, Temptation, and Recovery: Finding Balance in a Connected World

In this episode, we respond to a deeply thoughtful message from listener Zack, who opens up about the struggle many of us face in recovery—navigating the temptations and distractions of smartphone use while still needing to stay connected for work and life.

We explore the challenges of living in a hyper-connected world where one device can be both a tool and a trap. The team shares practical tools, software options, and personal experiences for setting healthy boundaries with technology. We also dive into the importance of intentionality, accountability, and staying honest about the digital triggers that can quietly undermine recovery.

Plus, we revisit a listener favorite—Isaac’s powerful story—and discuss the idea of inviting more voices from local 12 Step groups and Sage into future episodes.

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in an endless scroll, tempted by online escapes, or unsure how to strike balance with your phone, this one’s for you.

The Trap of Self-Pity: Escaping the Spiral in Recovery

Why do we so easily fall into self-pity—and why does it feel so familiar to those of us in addiction recovery? In this episode, we respond to a powerful question from listener Shloimy about the role of self-pity in our lives: what pulls us into it, what it costs us, and how we can step out of it.

The team opens up about their own experiences with self-pity, how it masquerades as comfort but often isolates us further, and the practical tools they’ve found that help shift perspective—from gratitude to service to honest connection. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the loop of “poor me,” this conversation is for you.

The Brothel and the Bell: Searching for God in Recovery

In this episode, we reflect on a profound quote shared by a listener: “The young man who rings the bell at the brothel is unconsciously looking for God.” What does it mean to seek wholeness in all the wrong places? How does addiction become a misguided spiritual quest—and what happens when we begin to recognize the deeper hunger underneath?

Drawing on Carl Jung’s insights and personal stories from recovery, we explore how acting out can falsely imitate connection, intimacy, or even divinity. We also talk about how real spiritual fulfillment—found through self-love, community, and the 12 Steps—can take the place of that desperate search. Join us for an honest, hopeful discussion on longing, God, and the journey toward true wholeness.

After the Storm: Recovery, Divorce, and Daniel’s Journey

In this deeply personal episode, we explore the intersection of recovery and divorce, inspired by a listener’s powerful message and request to hear more about Daniel’s story. What does it look like to rebuild after a marriage ends in the midst of healing? How do we navigate feelings of anger, grief, and loss while staying committed to recovery? Daniel opens up about his journey through divorce, the challenges he faced, and the lessons he continues to learn. We discuss what it means to do the next right thing, how to find peace when relationships fall apart, and how humility plays a role in forging a new path forward.

Black & White Thinking: The Trap of All-or-Nothing in Recovery

In this episode, the team dives into the challenges of black-and-white thinking and how it can deeply impact the recovery journey. Inspired by a listener email, we explore how the all-or-nothing mindset—“I’m either doing great or I’m a failure”—can keep us stuck in cycles of shame, guilt, and self-doubt. We share personal experiences, practical insights, and strategies for embracing the messy middle of growth. Whether you’re in recovery or just trying to break free from rigid thinking, this conversation is for you.

Digging Deep—Tools, Triggers, and the Truth Behind Addiction

Recovery isn’t just about stopping a behavior—it’s about building a new way of life. In this episode of 12th Step Podcast, we explore the essential tools for lasting recovery, how to stay out of your inner circle of destructive habits, and the deeper truths addiction may be hiding. Join us as we unpack these powerful topics and offer real strategies for breaking free and staying free.

Beyond the Surface—Fear, Commitment, and the Power of Step Work

Are you just visiting recovery, or are you truly in it for the long haul? In this episode of 12th Step Podcast, we explore why being a tourist in recovery never works, how fear holds us back from real healing, and whether working the steps actually makes a difference. Join us as we break down these crucial recovery topics and share insights on what it takes to move beyond the surface and into lasting change.

Surrender, Promises, and Lasting Recovery

Join us on 12th Step Podcast as we break down the first three of nine key recovery topics we've encountered while mentoring. We’ll discuss the challenge of surrendering ego to God’s will, explore whether the 9th Step Promise truly comes to life, and share practical insights on maintaining long-term recovery. Tune in for an honest, experience-driven conversation about what it takes to stay on the path of healing and growth.

Rules vs. Principles: Navigating Recovery with Purpose

In this episode of the 12th Step Podcast, we explore the key differences between rules and principles and how they shape your recovery journey. Are you just following a set of rules, or are you embracing the deeper principles behind them? Join us as we discuss how understanding this distinction can strengthen your commitment, foster personal growth, and lead to lasting change.

Love & Addiction: Can Someone with a Sexual Addiction Truly Love Their Partner?

In this episode of the 12th Step Podcast, we tackle a powerful listener question: Can someone struggling with sexual addiction truly love their partner? Is love and addiction at odds, or can they coexist? Join us as we explore the complexities of addiction, its impact on relationships, and what true love looks like in the context of recovery.